tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post5411657909717997769..comments2023-11-02T08:09:02.234-04:00Comments on Her Bad Mother: Little Beaner, Rest In PeaceHer Bad Motherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03535958887714152413noreply@blogger.comBlogger160125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-37584132065088643952009-01-28T22:45:00.000-05:002009-01-28T22:45:00.000-05:00as I just placed my 3-week old infant in her bounc...as I just placed my 3-week old infant in her bouncy seat with the hope that she will sleep for a while, I now long to pick her back up in my arms and cuddle her... as the tears run down my face, and my heart aches for Marie... I'm so sorry for your loss, and can only imagine the grief... and it hurts me... sending love & prayers to you Marie... and to you Catherine, for spreading the word, and all that you do... {hugs}Rustihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17912613768193549878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-70131566981027019792009-01-26T17:58:00.001-05:002009-01-26T17:58:00.001-05:00Much condolences and warm, fuzzy, healing vibes se...Much condolences and warm, fuzzy, healing vibes sent Marie's way. Just know the ripple of this loss is far reaching.Mammatalkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02817604771276398853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-54073428501187316782009-01-26T17:58:00.000-05:002009-01-26T17:58:00.000-05:00Much condolences and warm, fuzzy, healing vibes se...Much condolences and warm, fuzzy, healing vibes sent Marie's way. Just know the ripple of this loss is far reaching.Mammatalkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02817604771276398853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-92208793190518893412009-01-16T22:46:00.000-05:002009-01-16T22:46:00.000-05:00Oh Marie.... I am so, so sorry for your loss. Best...Oh Marie.... I am so, so sorry for your loss. <BR/><BR/>Best wishes to you in this dark time.... I pray that you and your family come out the other side a little stronger, a little closer, feeling a little better than you do now.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16649638235083533810noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-40504714859548355992009-01-16T21:31:00.000-05:002009-01-16T21:31:00.000-05:00These are not my words, they are Barbara Kingsolve...These are not my words, they are Barbara Kingsolver's. But they have held up a poultice to my heart when it has been heavy with grief. I offer them here in they hope that they will somehow help you on your journey. <BR/>"It used to be, on many days, that I could close my eyes and imagine myself perfectly happy. I have wondered lately if that feeling will ever come back. It's a worthy thing to wonder, but maybe being perfectly happy is not the point. Maybe that is only some modern dream of the point, while the truer measure of humanity is the distance we must travel in our lives, time and time again, "twixt two extremes of passion - joy and grief," as Shakespeare put it. However much I've lost, what remains to me is that I can still speak to name the things I love. And I can look for safety in giving myself away to the world's least losable things."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-874899505311707762009-01-16T20:17:00.000-05:002009-01-16T20:17:00.000-05:00Marie, I am shocked, stunned. I am so sorry for yo...Marie, I am shocked, stunned. I am so sorry for your loss. What a terrible thing to live through. So sorry.Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15080488909182074526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-65071787485557508332009-01-16T20:08:00.000-05:002009-01-16T20:08:00.000-05:00Marie, I'm so sorry. I am so sorry.Marie, I'm so sorry. I am so sorry.Stimeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09685801693683588805noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-1826604474477423772009-01-16T19:10:00.000-05:002009-01-16T19:10:00.000-05:00Dearest Marie....I am so very sorry for your loss....Dearest Marie....I am so very sorry for your loss. To lose a child must be hell, and there are so many other Momma's out there who have gone through it. Big hugs to you. xoxoMommato2https://www.blogger.com/profile/13475207169746158064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-45802599804777928152009-01-16T18:09:00.000-05:002009-01-16T18:09:00.000-05:00Marie, You have my deepest, sincerest condolences....Marie, You have my deepest, sincerest condolences. I am so sorry for your loss. Beaner was beautiful. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.LisaDuvallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09508322684304719977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-63863097983085341912009-01-16T11:27:00.000-05:002009-01-16T11:27:00.000-05:00oh Marie i'm so very sorry about Mia.i wish i was ...oh Marie i'm so very sorry about Mia.i wish i was close enough to give you a big hug and shoulder to cry on.may God make this awful pain easier for you to bear as time goes on...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-13256519976195516742009-01-16T11:09:00.000-05:002009-01-16T11:09:00.000-05:00There is rock in my stomach just from imagining su...There is rock in my stomach just from imagining such a thing. <BR/><BR/>The hardest part for me is not being able to find you for real and wrap my arms around you.<BR/><BR/>The second hardest part is realizing that you probably have no idea how TRULY joined with you in sorrow we are.Dellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06397062869413109155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-56559269703975306272009-01-16T11:06:00.000-05:002009-01-16T11:06:00.000-05:00Marie, I am so sorry for your loss.Marie, I am so sorry for your loss.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-82934745431746481122009-01-16T09:54:00.000-05:002009-01-16T09:54:00.000-05:00Marie: I'm so sorry.Marie: I'm so sorry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-74781365064662457612009-01-16T08:51:00.000-05:002009-01-16T08:51:00.000-05:00My heart breaks.ciao,rpmMy heart breaks.<BR/><BR/>ciao,<BR/>rpmAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-62328459884250474642009-01-16T03:02:00.000-05:002009-01-16T03:02:00.000-05:00No words could ever say how deeply sorry I am...No words could ever say how deeply sorry I am...Creative-Type Dadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13594687030412942701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-53645551654631514172009-01-16T01:50:00.000-05:002009-01-16T01:50:00.000-05:00Maria,I am so sorry. So very sorry.Maria,<BR/>I am so sorry. So very sorry.Samhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06066499436533594138noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-43680173021765658042009-01-16T00:41:00.000-05:002009-01-16T00:41:00.000-05:00I am very sorry to hear about your loss and your f...I am very sorry to hear about your loss and your family's loss.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-56959162933876060402009-01-15T22:23:00.000-05:002009-01-15T22:23:00.000-05:00I'm so sorry Marie. I am another grieving mother w...I'm so sorry Marie. I am another grieving mother who lost babies.<BR/><BR/>This is a terrible loss, and it will never leave you. There is no closure, but after a while, a very long while, you will be able to deal with the pain and memories. It just takes time.<BR/><BR/>Take care, and if you ever need anything, please email me, or look on my blogroll for any of the grieving mamas out there on the net.<BR/><BR/>And if you need some real life support, please don't hesitate to ask for it. Support groups aren't always for everyone, but ohhh, can they work miracles.Aureliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13691032415028867902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-8536737005052650642009-01-15T19:23:00.000-05:002009-01-15T19:23:00.000-05:00Please accept my heartfelt condolences. What a be...Please accept my heartfelt condolences. What a beautiful baby. How lucky we all are for the time we have with our children. No matter how long.momranoutscreaminghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03469231744187372863noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-40370136127667310852009-01-15T18:53:00.000-05:002009-01-15T18:53:00.000-05:00Oh, how very sad. I am so deeply saddened by and s...Oh, how very sad. I am so deeply saddened by and sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences.Kaitlynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01550226510140605127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-39565595596832662222009-01-15T16:39:00.000-05:002009-01-15T16:39:00.000-05:00Marie,I am so, so sorry for your loss. I remember ...Marie,<BR/>I am so, so sorry for your loss. I remember your story and your beautiful little girl. As HBM said, your little Mia is mourned and will be remembered. <BR/><BR/>There really are no words for such a loss. I have faced the terrifying prospect of losing my infant when he was in the NICU, but for whatever reason, he miracuously defied the doctors. My heart just breaks for other moms who do have to go through that loss.Avonleahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07207506579954260744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-74270793094567389182009-01-15T15:59:00.000-05:002009-01-15T15:59:00.000-05:00I was so saddened to hear of the loss of this baby...I was so saddened to hear of the loss of this baby. My most heartfelt sympathies to her mother and her family and to everyone that knew about her and cared.fruitladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11529788171924535690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-57463796687771248802009-01-15T15:37:00.000-05:002009-01-15T15:37:00.000-05:00Oh no. Like Catherine, I thought this story was g...Oh no. Like Catherine, I thought this story was going to have a happy ending. I am so sorry to hear that little Mia is gone.<BR/><BR/>I hope for peace for you, and for your family.Hannahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15855682469727450176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-45283381323770515602009-01-15T15:20:00.000-05:002009-01-15T15:20:00.000-05:00Oh Marie. I am so, so very sorry for your loss.Oh Marie. I am so, so very sorry for your loss.idiothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09359115175213964128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-83916282404405911642009-01-15T15:19:00.000-05:002009-01-15T15:19:00.000-05:00I am so sorry for your heartbreaking loss.I am so sorry for your heartbreaking loss.mom2njihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00161033002882589345noreply@blogger.com