tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post990129792978930547..comments2023-11-02T08:09:02.234-04:00Comments on Her Bad Mother: DarkHer Bad Motherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03535958887714152413noreply@blogger.comBlogger109125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-3003447657345786902007-12-03T02:27:00.000-05:002007-12-03T02:27:00.000-05:00My heart goes out to you, and my prayers. Keep in...My heart goes out to you, and my prayers. Keep in mind, often the test or technician isn't the right tool at the righ time for you and your baby. I had several miscarriages before my oldest daughter was born. Afterward, another 12 years of wanting, trying, and crying... then a suprise - and many changes later... my 3rd child gave us a similar scare. Due to my history and both our ages, we had an early set of tests at about 12 weeks gestation. Needless to say there was 'nothing' on the ultrasound. No heartbeats, no images, noting. We cried and cried... but my husband said the baby was 'just hiding' (I personally thought he was patronizing me - can we say "overly distraught hormones?") Turned out he was right. Lesson for me was that no matter what medical test or scary news we receive, it was ultimately a false alarm and another reminder that we are 'practicing' medicine.<BR/><BR/>Keep your stress as low as you can, and let Him take your burden.<BR/><BR/>God Bless and Good Luck -<BR/>SupermomhasleftthebuildingAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00335144981722745823noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-31915436522946060802007-11-27T13:18:00.000-05:002007-11-27T13:18:00.000-05:00Thinking of you and your family.Thinking of you and your family.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-82230055391972594332007-11-27T12:05:00.000-05:002007-11-27T12:05:00.000-05:00I said a prayer for you just now. I pray everythi...I said a prayer for you just now. I pray everything will be fine, if not, God give you the strength and peace to deal with whatever lie ahead. <BR/>I am sorry this is such a difficult time, there is always a light.iheartchocolatehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06506809401305000430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-42695217974547789132007-11-27T11:52:00.000-05:002007-11-27T11:52:00.000-05:00I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. Best wishes...I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. Best wishes for you and baby!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-80694688661217849712007-11-27T11:39:00.000-05:002007-11-27T11:39:00.000-05:00thinking of you and looking for an update (((hugs)...thinking of you and looking for an update (((hugs)))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-75681301900575294122007-11-27T11:33:00.000-05:002007-11-27T11:33:00.000-05:00Crossing my fingers and hoping for the best for yo...Crossing my fingers and hoping for the best for you.<BR/><BR/>I hate when they tell you to come in the next day, with no explanation. That has to go against some kind of medical ethics code. If it's that important, they should be able to give you more information about what's going on to require you to come in.<BR/><BR/>Wishing for nothing but good news.Christinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07345875955750219033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-45969411940287162312007-11-27T10:56:00.000-05:002007-11-27T10:56:00.000-05:00Hoping and praying this is the sort of worry you'l...Hoping and praying this is the sort of worry you'll look back on and laugh. Hang in there, girl... you have lots of folks rooting for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-12803206199352397772007-11-27T10:40:00.000-05:002007-11-27T10:40:00.000-05:00I'm praying for you.... and I'll be checking for u...I'm praying for you.... and I'll be checking for updates....<BR/><BR/>I know what you are feeling... I had 2 days of bleeding recently and the doctor has no idea why, the heartbeat was fine and he says everything "looks" normal. He said if there is anything wrong they will catch it at my u/s ON TH 31ST!!<BR/><BR/>I will be anxious and holding my breath evertime I use the bathroom until then, panicing the bleeding may return... so far, so good, but that is little to calm my fears.<BR/><BR/>Finger and toes and anything else I can manage are crossed for you..Jeniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01307079683484637744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-9804336707407900202007-11-27T10:27:00.000-05:002007-11-27T10:27:00.000-05:00Fingers crossed. Just try to remember that the sc...Fingers crossed. Just try to remember that the screening tests are all about odds. False positives are common, especially when you're, um... a bit older like we are.<BR/><BR/>With my first pregnancy, my screen came back with a 1 in 31 chance of Down's Sydrome. I had an amnio. Everything was fine. But they have to talk to you quickly to give you the greatest number of options for further testing.<BR/><BR/>Hang in there.Lawyer Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06819273107327846943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-1263065302386236622007-11-27T10:26:00.000-05:002007-11-27T10:26:00.000-05:00I don't know what to say because nothing will calm...I don't know what to say because nothing will calm your nerves until you are at the doctor's office. Please know that I'm praying everything is well and that your doctor is just exaggerating and that nothing is wrong.<BR/><BR/>-hugs from afar-<BR/>DanaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-45350580594040647632007-11-27T10:15:00.000-05:002007-11-27T10:15:00.000-05:00Fingers crossed, prayers being said.Fingers crossed, prayers being said.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16654469738983985074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-36397813721816672712007-11-27T10:13:00.000-05:002007-11-27T10:13:00.000-05:00It is 10:15 am Toronto Time on Tuesday.I am counti...It is 10:15 am Toronto Time on Tuesday.<BR/><BR/>I am counting the minutes until you come back from the doctor's office and let us know what happened.<BR/><BR/>Love you!The City Galhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819377234772187931noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-26575191777455344282007-11-27T08:46:00.000-05:002007-11-27T08:46:00.000-05:00Sending BIG HUGS and positive vibes your way... *f...Sending BIG HUGS and positive vibes your way... *fingers crossed* that DR is being overly cautious.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-91234364013044853132007-11-27T08:42:00.000-05:002007-11-27T08:42:00.000-05:00Sending you positive vibes and best wishes from th...Sending you positive vibes and best wishes from the Boonies...<BR/><BR/>CarlyCarly Fosterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18059852155891559776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-67560266507655735352007-11-27T08:26:00.000-05:002007-11-27T08:26:00.000-05:00I was thinking about this last night - if your tes...I was thinking about this last night - if your test was more than a week ago and the doctor is just calling now then it may not be a huge thing.<BR/>I hope that's the case.<BR/>When my doctor called me back about the IPS results I was terrified - and literally hopped in a cab and begged to see her.<BR/>I had low iron and was told to eat red meat. Seriously. (thankfully they didn't check my blood pressure)Laural Dawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08459584652802529868noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-75167806502722601402007-11-27T02:01:00.000-05:002007-11-27T02:01:00.000-05:00I'm wishing with all my might that today you will ...I'm wishing with all my might that today you will be given all your hope and joy back.ms bluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06997925420763913039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-82312335677070391072007-11-27T01:19:00.000-05:002007-11-27T01:19:00.000-05:00fingers crossed, fingers crossed....fingers crossed, fingers crossed....Creative-Type Dadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13594687030412942701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-18971328493590078632007-11-27T00:47:00.000-05:002007-11-27T00:47:00.000-05:00Thinking of youThinking of youflutterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11828689769747130419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-88451343867750462012007-11-27T00:45:00.000-05:002007-11-27T00:45:00.000-05:00Oh my goodness. Best of luck. Hang in there, lady....Oh my goodness. Best of luck. Hang in there, lady.Jaelithehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12081888212421953409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-34671056298616387692007-11-27T00:40:00.000-05:002007-11-27T00:40:00.000-05:00Thinking of both of you. *hugs*Thinking of both of you. *hugs*Cathy, Amy and Kristinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01472486650115997239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-75294899084765028132007-11-27T00:15:00.000-05:002007-11-27T00:15:00.000-05:00Oh baby. I know you can't relax, but I wish you al...Oh baby. I know you can't relax, but I wish you all the best.SUEB0Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16301963922769609715noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-69942905115884395462007-11-26T23:28:00.000-05:002007-11-26T23:28:00.000-05:00to get an amnio. Being scared is a big deal.amnio....to get an amnio. Being scared is a big deal.<BR/>amnio. really not a big deal. I swear.<BR/>I cry from a hangnail.moplanshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16998309937928231527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-69975945275479956322007-11-26T23:27:00.000-05:002007-11-26T23:27:00.000-05:00I think that is a very nasty thing to do to a preg...I think that is a very nasty thing to do to a pregnant lady. From a screen they don't know anything for sure. Don't freak out. You screen positive at 1 in 200. <BR/>Get the amnio if you are worried. Seriously it is not a big deal.moplanshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16998309937928231527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-42539173677076220962007-11-26T22:40:00.000-05:002007-11-26T22:40:00.000-05:00Oh, brother...I thought they taught against this k...Oh, brother...I thought they taught against this kind of thing in doctor school.<BR/><BR/>I had a doctor do this to me once and it was because she needed to change an appointment. What an idiot.<BR/><BR/>If it's the blood test, just know that I can count on both hands and both feet the number of people who had positive results leaning in some direction which later turned out to be false positives because dates were screwy or because they were old fogey moms, etc.<BR/><BR/>Anyway...I am willing tomorrow morning to be here. All will be well. All will be well. In ten years, you can ground Sprout for scaring the heck out of you.josetteplank.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16790825543155685363noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-52225796590869130992007-11-26T22:34:00.000-05:002007-11-26T22:34:00.000-05:00Thinking of you here at the nest. Hang in there!Thinking of you here at the nest. Hang in there!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com