tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post8954937577354757493..comments2023-11-02T08:09:02.234-04:00Comments on Her Bad Mother: Visualize Whirled PeasHer Bad Motherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03535958887714152413noreply@blogger.comBlogger93125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-59521357374534958582008-11-12T06:10:00.000-05:002008-11-12T06:10:00.000-05:00Your peas have meant so much to me, I had to use t...Your peas have meant so much to me, I had to use them in my latest post. http://booba-juice.blogspot.com/2008/11/alien-invasions.html<BR/><BR/>Here is hoping that we both get the peas that we need.<BR/><BR/>:-)Booba Juicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02893124919568283507noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-77836642399278855352008-10-17T10:26:00.000-04:002008-10-17T10:26:00.000-04:00You are very brave! I have had that flash of anger...You are very brave! <BR/>I have had that flash of anger- very scary.<BR/>I wish you all the best.Erinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03851960073900583912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-78149873484378511442008-10-09T16:24:00.000-04:002008-10-09T16:24:00.000-04:00Suddenly, I have an overwhelming craving for pea s...Suddenly, I have an overwhelming craving for pea soup....!Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07516203764767040649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-73467744039746902062008-10-08T19:56:00.000-04:002008-10-08T19:56:00.000-04:00Oh god. Thank you (really a lot) for your honesty...Oh god. <BR/><BR/>Thank you (really a lot) for your honesty.<BR/><BR/>I wish you peace<BR/><BR/>and <BR/><BR/>I am grateful<BR/><BR/>that I found this post today... <BR/><BR/>so many reasons why.<BR/><BR/>There is nothing so vulnerable <BR/><BR/>as sharing darkness (with the unknown).<BR/><BR/>You can't know the unintended results of your honesty.Indigo Childrenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14308293750564309399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-54866602404962002712008-10-06T17:32:00.000-04:002008-10-06T17:32:00.000-04:00Wishing you many peas.This was so sweet. I recent...Wishing you many peas.<BR/><BR/>This was so sweet. I recently wrote a post called Depression is an Asshole. Maybe I need halp?!?Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14258405168792203613noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-11712971770223080952008-10-05T17:29:00.000-04:002008-10-05T17:29:00.000-04:00I love this. How did Svetlana know your blog name?...I love this. How did Svetlana know your blog name? ;)<BR/><BR/>Sleep and peas, sweet dear.Maggie, Dammithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16471019955310537571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-54559813918475902522008-10-05T10:59:00.000-04:002008-10-05T10:59:00.000-04:00Sometime the universe sends you Svetlanas right wh...Sometime the universe sends you Svetlanas right when you need them. Ativan too. <BR/><BR/>Peace, mama.Mom101https://www.blogger.com/profile/15468524489744839899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-74030881848041895022008-10-05T07:09:00.000-04:002008-10-05T07:09:00.000-04:00Get zome zleep, dearie. Thinking of you.Get zome zleep, dearie. Thinking of you.Ruth Dynamitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06161626814106717754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-41643593136033268912008-10-04T23:37:00.000-04:002008-10-04T23:37:00.000-04:00Hang in there, chickadee, hang in there.Hang in there, chickadee, hang in there.Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15677486759919091018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-92224830152437487682008-10-04T23:04:00.000-04:002008-10-04T23:04:00.000-04:00My heart goes out to you! No one realizes how much...My heart goes out to you! No one realizes how much lack of sleep really affects you, it really can push you over the edge. Good luck getting some real sleep and peas, I know there is a light at the end of the tunnel for you even though it may not feel like it! Hang in there:)Just Call Me Sleep Deprivedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16540792596085928845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-66820993296997444182008-10-04T22:01:00.000-04:002008-10-04T22:01:00.000-04:00Now you need to stop reading all these wonderful c...Now you need to stop reading all these wonderful comments from everyone and go back to bed to get some sleep and peas!!!Ernestahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03781480379290482311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-81107771729470478902008-10-04T15:12:00.000-04:002008-10-04T15:12:00.000-04:00I wish I had been strong enough to see a shrink in...I wish I had been strong enough to see a shrink in my postpartum months. I white-knuckled it through and was miserable. I hope you get the "peas" you need from all of this. It's a tremendous act of courage to get help with this, and very, very wise.Kazahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04953977625325499626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-16273321973513531952008-10-04T12:53:00.000-04:002008-10-04T12:53:00.000-04:00As a person, woman, mother on anxiety meds, I can ...As a person, woman, mother on anxiety meds, I can tell you for shizzle that lack of sleep is what put me over the edge and near breakdown territory. <BR/><BR/>My husband started taking some overnights with BOTH babies and I slept through the night for about a week. I was a completely different person. <BR/><BR/>I don't think that the dark thoughts come from a dark side of yourself, I believe they come from the taboo of thinking them. The mere fact that we're so sure it's wrong to want to hurt our baby is enought to make us think that when we're insanely stressed and tired. And then we make it worse by feeling guilt over having those thoughts. It's just your body's way of making you seek help. Ativan is yummy.BabyonBoredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05988664515214410933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-53693004624650138022008-10-04T12:36:00.000-04:002008-10-04T12:36:00.000-04:00Peace has a way of changing the world ... May slee...Peace has a way of changing the world ... May sleep change yours! Positive vibes headed your way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-45917219561877951962008-10-04T07:45:00.000-04:002008-10-04T07:45:00.000-04:00Sleep will do you good. I see brightness ahead. ...Sleep will do you good. I see brightness ahead. My youngest just turned 4 and I can assure you: there comes a day when they all sleep, and it seems miraculous and ordinary at the same time.Fairly Odd Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11974404093257620566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-34176209531890737672008-10-04T02:28:00.000-04:002008-10-04T02:28:00.000-04:00Sleep and peas sound wonderful! I am with you on ...Sleep and peas sound wonderful! I am with you on the exhaustion. My babe is just 4 months and not sleeping well. I also have a 5 and 7 year old who are my reminders that there is a light at the end. Hopefully soon :) Hang in there!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-33239129437452105052008-10-03T23:33:00.000-04:002008-10-03T23:33:00.000-04:00I've been reading along, unsure of what to say onl...I've been reading along, unsure of what to say only because it sounded cliche to say I've been there. But I have been there, and understand this so well.<BR/><BR/>You are a good mother. You're better than many considering how fast you decided to take action. And I think Svetlana has the right idea: sleep and peas. We could all use more of that, couldn't we?Christinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07345875955750219033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-68860064539948515312008-10-03T21:55:00.000-04:002008-10-03T21:55:00.000-04:00You ARE a good mother. A great mother. I'm glad yo...You ARE a good mother. A great mother. I'm glad you got some peas...er peace anyways.Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17521087495691496698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-39065867789367551912008-10-03T19:37:00.000-04:002008-10-03T19:37:00.000-04:00zees post make me cry.You'll get there girl. Slee...zees post make me cry.<BR/><BR/>You'll get there girl. Sleep is as good a place to start as any.Mama Smurfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18156035813578322910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-87057012939831589402008-10-03T18:37:00.000-04:002008-10-03T18:37:00.000-04:00When you got to the part about reading the notes I...When you got to the part about reading the notes I MARVELED at your strength but you are just...amazing to me.<BR/><BR/>I think the sleep thing alone would SEND ME. I thing getting that under control will make coping easier.<BR/><BR/>Next to something going wrong lack of sleep is the single biggest fear I have about having a baby again.<BR/><BR/>I love you, you wonderful, wonderful woman. All my good thoughts are sent your way.Loralee Choatehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16055102094371755499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-23692224405728037732008-10-03T15:31:00.000-04:002008-10-03T15:31:00.000-04:00Reading the doctor's notes almost made me get up a...Reading the doctor's notes almost made me get up and leave the room. but I'm glad that I stayed.Her Bad Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03535958887714152413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-29003503337660534872008-10-03T15:25:00.000-04:002008-10-03T15:25:00.000-04:00Reading the doctor's notes is what got me. So har...Reading the doctor's notes is what got me. So harsh. So clinical. Not compassionate enough. Hang in there!Bibihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03203829802265788353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-75910560937827371532008-10-03T15:08:00.000-04:002008-10-03T15:08:00.000-04:00OK Svetlana, who I was all set to hate, made me cr...OK Svetlana, who I was all set to hate, made me cry. Dammit! She's a winner. You're in good hands. Now go to bed.Candyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14070433904661239686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-84465843794210315742008-10-03T14:03:00.000-04:002008-10-03T14:03:00.000-04:00That just almost made me cry! I'm so sorry. You ...That just almost made me cry! I'm so sorry. You will get through this. Be open to therapy. I used to think it was for schmucks but then I went through counseling when I got divorced. It helped soooooo much, I can't even begin to say. <BR/><BR/>I am wishing you much peas.HeatherPridehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03860275128883460043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-74746340906555871192008-10-03T13:45:00.000-04:002008-10-03T13:45:00.000-04:00Oh dear. I am so sorry for your difficulties. It s...Oh dear. I am so sorry for your difficulties. It seems as though you have found some wonderful help, however. Having someone understand and help find solutions is such a blessing!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com