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Those kids, ...So glad she's going to be okay. <br /><br />Those kids, love to have weird things that scare the crud out of us.Mrs. Boomshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07327877419678061633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-74837897694978827532009-06-17T10:53:20.163-04:002009-06-17T10:53:20.163-04:00I think we've all been there. On the day of m...I think we've all been there. On the day of my daughter's 2nd birthday she came up with what looked like a bug bite in her groin area. It was red and hard and had what looked like a little head on it, but I ignored it because I didn't want her to miss her birthday party. My mother, sister, and husband were all concerned, but The Birthday Party!<br /><br />The next day we wound up in the ER getting boil lanced...she had MRSA, the horrible staph infection that the media was sensationaling at the time. I couldn't stop crying. I had let it get to that point because of a damn party.<br /><br />So I totally understand. Chances are that she will never even remember it. Kids are so forgiving like that.Meghttp://www.sleepynewmommy.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-90741419833165155722009-06-17T09:49:47.957-04:002009-06-17T09:49:47.957-04:00Hey, I felt terrible about giving my son a scar on...Hey, I felt terrible about giving my son a scar on his face when he had to have a (benign) tumor removed as a baby. This thing was a millimeter from his BRAIN and I still had room in my heart stuffed full of worry to worry about the look of the scar.<br /><br />I struggled with what I initially perceived as shallowness and vanity on my part, but then I realized -- It's not that I would love him any less with ANY kind of scar. I think it was two things: one, I knew a very noticeable scar might cause people to constantly ask him what it was from, which might make him uncomfortable. I didn't want people to see a scar as the most noticeable thing about him. Two, I knew a big scar would be ugly to me <i>as a reminder of his injury</i>. As a reminder that my child had been in pain.<br /><br />(Anyway, these days you can hardly see the scar. But I've told him to tell anyone who asks about it that he got it in a battle with an evil wizard just like Harry Potter.)Jaelithehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12081888212421953409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-66610017984524240022009-06-17T08:29:40.766-04:002009-06-17T08:29:40.766-04:00Bea - yes, I think that it was because she looked ...Bea - yes, I think that it was because she looked endangered. But there was the fleeting, terrible thought of 'what if she stays this way? what if this disfigures her?'<br /><br />Which, yuck. Yuck to the feeling and yuck to the fear.Her Bad Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03535958887714152413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-19951887851448761762009-06-17T00:34:40.144-04:002009-06-17T00:34:40.144-04:00The important thing is that she is okay and that y...The important thing is that she is okay and that you DID take her to receive medical attention.<br /><br />It could have been ANYTHING. If my kids get stung by mosquitoes their faces swell up like crazy. MOSQUITOES! Just about everyone deals with them, but leave it to my kids to get an allergic reaction.<br /><br />Despite what your blog name says, you're not a bad mother.Elda - Peace in the Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05933652175544944325noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-66901842249679042482009-06-16T23:23:26.313-04:002009-06-16T23:23:26.313-04:00Of course you hated to see her looking that way, b...Of course you hated to see her looking that way, but I don't think that's about aesthetics, about her looking unattractive. Isn't it because she looked <i>endangered</i>?Beahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15957626443087438904noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-29976330158653198592009-06-16T22:15:50.626-04:002009-06-16T22:15:50.626-04:00I'm glad she's okay. The same thing happen...I'm glad she's okay. The same thing happened to my daughter last year. Swelled her eye completely shut. <br /><br />P.S. I clean when I'm upset too, it's usually folding laundry.Mrs. Schmittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14745072739050640143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-85475288090167644262009-06-16T21:53:09.188-04:002009-06-16T21:53:09.188-04:00Aw poor baby. I am glad that she is going to be O...Aw poor baby. I am glad that she is going to be OK.Melihttp://www.melidworld.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-19503223548664837602009-06-16T19:55:47.502-04:002009-06-16T19:55:47.502-04:00But when you got home from the hospital and everyt...But when you got home from the hospital and everything was ok, you came home to a house with a clean floor, which would be comforting. It's always nice to come home to clean. Especially after something traumatic.<br /><br />I know that's not the point of your post.Tarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18384206429432741119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-29010419740478406512009-06-16T16:52:41.719-04:002009-06-16T16:52:41.719-04:00My little 4 yr old has trouble with bug bites too ...My little 4 yr old has trouble with bug bites too poor thing! <br /><br />Last time it was his ear... looked like Dumbo, poor guy. It was back to normal in two days, thank goodness! :)Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01081737516724753181noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-41441482317000764032009-06-16T16:27:25.652-04:002009-06-16T16:27:25.652-04:00For the anons discussing the measles case- I live ...For the anons discussing the measles case- I live in San Diego. Here is what actually happened:<br /><br />A family who chooses not to vaccinate visited Switzerland (which also has a lot of people who choose not to vaccinate) and their kids got the measles. They didn't show symptoms until they returned (measles has a fairly long incubation period). The outbreak spread from this initial family to several others, including two babies who were too young to have been vaccinated (first MMR is usually at 12 months). <br /><br />If you have never seen a picture of a child with measles, you should go find one using Google. I can completely understand that mother's reaction of not wanting to remember her child looking like that, because it looks painful, and who wants to remember their child in pain?<br /><br />As a side note, my daughter was 11 months old at the time, and the outbreak was spreading close to our neighborhood. We were very nervous. Measles has a mortality rate of something like 1 in 1000. It was the most helpless I've felt as a mother, because there wasn't much I could do to protect her. We got her vaccinated on schedule (we were planning to do that anyway), but it was a tense month.Cloudhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09317847285050447789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-28260736041935914342009-06-16T14:51:09.124-04:002009-06-16T14:51:09.124-04:00A little bit (like a tablespoon) of bleach in her ...A little bit (like a tablespoon) of bleach in her bath water for the next few days will help disinfect the bite too. (((HUGS)))<br /><br />I bake pies, when the out-of-my-control happens.Kristen McDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11296480424009670097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-81350594980474947342009-06-16T14:39:02.726-04:002009-06-16T14:39:02.726-04:00It's good you didn't take a picture. Some...It's good you didn't take a picture. Some things don't need to be documented. <br /><br />Glad to hear that she's o.k. and don't feel bad. When my mother died...I left the hospital...went to her house...opened up all her Christmas presents, artfully arranged them under the tree, vaccuumed the fallen needles and prepared the house for company. Sometimes that's all we can do.Lorriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12594005184182858373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-32576177154122227262009-06-16T14:17:35.569-04:002009-06-16T14:17:35.569-04:00That is SO eerie, because exactly the same thing h...That is SO eerie, because exactly the same thing happened to us and our 3-year-old yesterday morning:<br /><br />http://durhamregionbaby.com/2009/06/unspoken/<br /><br />There must be something in this Durham Region air, I tell you.<br /><br />I took photos, though. I didn't vacuum, but I took pics. We're calling her Quasimodo.<br /><br />Out of all her illnesses, this one has effected me the most. I even called her home daycare today to make sure she was alright -- something I never do. Probably because it's so visual, unlike a cold or something on the inside.<br /><br />Glad to hear the drugs are working with E. Lucy has still not responded to them, and she actually woke up looking worse this morning. Thankfully I was ready this time, and didn't almost scream in terror like Monday.<br /><br />Hope all is better today.Carlyhttp://www.durhamregionbaby.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-57519354890791237142009-06-16T14:06:47.069-04:002009-06-16T14:06:47.069-04:00I'm glad to hear that Emilia is getting better...I'm glad to hear that Emilia is getting better.<br />I can identify with many of the feelings you wrote about. Guilt over not taking child to ER sooner? Check. We did the "wait and see" the evening when our little guy had a sore arm and told us one of the teachers at daycare had hurt his arm. Even though "nursemaid's elbow" popped into my head, I went along with my husband's thought to wait. Took our little guy to the ER the next morning and, sure enough it was a dislocated elbow/nursemaid's elbow. When telling the story, I usually gloss over the fact that we didn't get him to the ER until the next morning.<br /><br />Also, not wanting to remember how horrible my baby looked with a picture? Check. Though in my case it was a very different situation. When our little guy was in the NICU (and the doctors were readying us for us to lose him), we refused to take pictures of him. We had 2.5 weeks of newborn pics from before and...if the worst happened...we didn't want to remember him swollen from the steroids, with IVs in his skull, a central line in his leg, him in a medically induced coma with a machine breathing for him...Egads. That image is burned into my brain anyway. (Thank the gods, we had a miracle, and you cannot tell now how truly sick he was then.)<br /><br />Sorry for the book.Avonleahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07207506579954260744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-2302026124581055622009-06-16T13:42:47.293-04:002009-06-16T13:42:47.293-04:00Oh my gah, been there, done that. It's a horr...Oh my gah, been there, done that. It's a horrible, dreadful feeling, and my reaction at that time (and others) was similar. Almost like I took a Valium and then started to clean something in the interim... so bizarre. The thought that something is happening to my child and the inability to fix it while we get help... the terror... poor baby Amelia! Poor HBM. Kisses to you all. xo.anniemomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12459244306667636923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-89094708606677937982009-06-16T11:35:02.241-04:002009-06-16T11:35:02.241-04:00I know how that internal reaction is. When I was i...I know how that internal reaction is. When I was in high school, my sister, mother and I were living in Colorado, and my dad had just been transferred to Montana. It was really hard on all of us, and we were trying to sell the house and join him. One night, we had sat down to dinner and my dad's boss called. My dad had collapsed on the sidewalk from a heart attack. They had managed to revive him, but he was in a bad way and was awaiting open heart surgery. I took my mom's credit card, bought the next plane tickets, called my sister into school and my mother and I into work, found a house sitter, and then locked myself in the bathroom and scrubbed it for the next two hours. Because my dad is a neat freak and he would be so upset if he knew I'd let some soap scum accumulate on the shower, or toothpaste gum up the sink. I mean, he was fine, but I know the cleaning to keep yourself from losing it. <br /><br />I'm glad Emilia's fine!coolteamblthttp://coolteamblt.livejournal.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-54228911961239070122009-06-16T11:20:15.722-04:002009-06-16T11:20:15.722-04:00Forgot to mention that she has to take the Zyrtec ...Forgot to mention that she has to take the Zyrtec daily. It already has to be in her system when she gets the bite or it doesn't have the same benefit of keeping the reaction down.Amynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-67322815577398317342009-06-16T11:18:16.198-04:002009-06-16T11:18:16.198-04:00Sorry if I'm repeating anyone else. My daught...Sorry if I'm repeating anyone else. My daughter has BAD reactions to mosquito bites. We're an allergic family (seasonal, pet, food) and already see an allergist regularly. She put my daughter on Zyrtec for spring/summer, as it has better protection for mosquito bites than other antihistamines. Don't know if it applies to other insects, but it's worth questioning the doctor. <br /><br />It is scary to see a reaction like that. Glad to hear that E will be fine!Amynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21558474.post-16174035030765983342009-06-16T11:02:54.893-04:002009-06-16T11:02:54.893-04:00Anon - we do have TeleHealth on speed dial, but we...Anon - we do have TeleHealth on speed dial, but we don't dial it much anymore because they ALWAYS tell us to go to emerg. EVERY SINGLE TIME. So we wade through the call with all the same questions and then they say, 'you should take her/him to the closest emergency.' So, yeah. We sometimes just cut out the middle man.Her Bad Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03535958887714152413noreply@blogger.com